Should i call the father when i am going to deliver?

you poor poor pet. do not contact him. try to think of yourself right now and concentrate on getting through this. you need to focus on your child and also your unborn baby. there is no doubt that being strong right now will be very difficult but you are all that your children have left now. they have been abandoned and they need you more than ever. talk to your child. be honest but appropriate. but assure him/her that it will be ok. IT WILL BE OK. you will be absolutely fine. might sound crazy right now, but you CAN get through this and you will. its all about putting up a fight now. this is a sink or swim moment in life and you need to fight like a B to stay afloat. when you do come out the other side......believe me....... no one will EVER EVER get the opportunity to put you in this kind of position again because you will be stronger and wiser. you will thank that man for helping create the wonderful woman you will become as a result of this horrible situation. good luck dear xxxx